TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
0 [6 c a q. O• attend a sleepover
! z/ u. }+ Y/ Q z4 d- {• have a playdate/ O; C3 ?9 t1 o L
• be in a school play2 B0 J9 u! Y* c" p- I& s
• complain about not being in a school play* e0 }( P7 z/ y9 M9 [( _
• watch TV or play computer games
& j* B: ]% I# u0 b6 O* `- ?• choose their own extracurricular activities
3 E6 c# `& e+ W( P• get any grade less than an A* V( u+ b+ \! i# ~, v/ x
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
) _! F3 U; f- H% @" F" l, B) p! V4 M• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
8 D8 R3 T+ G% r( N+ v& h' \• not play the piano or violin. - p" s; N9 M6 T% v
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
. i! E% P+ Y# j6 q, t! ?+ e我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
9 s5 u6 n1 h1 r- {2 Y6 ?到底何为成功? c- z+ E! P( l* O2 j+ b* H
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
& B' [' q5 @# r3 j"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?/ ?+ c+ {0 ~- t
做到这些又能怎样呢?
' S( }$ S. G3 x5 i我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。* M8 I: R. s8 k# p0 H- F% P
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。 a4 c! M5 P5 ]. e, I
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
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我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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