TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
P) U- |% H- P4 H) C• attend a sleepover
: K3 m" f ?- K• have a playdate
: O' K+ Q! g _! Z7 \• be in a school play
9 b! q8 k& \8 ]6 j; }* a• complain about not being in a school play
( q5 q, K, ^7 S• watch TV or play computer games8 S9 V( E. l! F4 S" X) K; |0 N9 N4 W
• choose their own extracurricular activities! V8 I5 R" ?3 a) L4 J: D
• get any grade less than an A2 _- Q* b/ E* t
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama& G5 R9 W$ A9 r
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin& X8 e+ k' F: @; u
• not play the piano or violin. 7 W. @8 o: |: d
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。% R0 G$ D) k# j1 }2 ^4 Z) A# c# U
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
3 n6 u+ E& R9 K f到底何为成功?
) I0 X; w$ s- [6 T1 [# u2 B$ G“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?$ W4 K n; a/ b" U$ \
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?6 F+ ]7 ^2 f0 ~( ^
做到这些又能怎样呢?, d0 X; o% r# y' ~( h2 C+ T
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
* a) o% K% u7 ?6 f" O- l在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
7 Z4 E0 k4 D9 h. mnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
" g6 v9 N* p3 h8 DNO WAY!% g' c0 v# Z6 q$ w8 O
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?& ^; S& v; O' s% M
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