TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
( U# E3 w1 o1 n; L9 T+ R8 z9 ?• attend a sleepover
: ?+ Z7 T( H5 l% k# `• have a playdate
. A) u% _: n* u6 U5 X4 g• be in a school play
5 j: M, F5 Y& n4 t* p• complain about not being in a school play* m8 u: H7 H- Q
• watch TV or play computer games
! d' d2 \8 u, M* e0 \- h• choose their own extracurricular activities
6 N, m7 F1 u' O/ L6 U! d, w• get any grade less than an A
+ w# @, X" c% p, E7 L$ n1 o i• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama) l- u& P$ s# }' J$ q
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin2 g. [. L0 b( B
• not play the piano or violin.
8 I' }+ H4 R/ k: W; r$ s, g看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。, V% o; \! I: U" }
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
5 |8 u0 B4 _, r% I! H$ {( N# e到底何为成功?* ^' n2 x7 v. Q* V
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
8 `. s) ` { U2 C8 ^" U"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?$ u5 y6 h0 Y& p2 i
做到这些又能怎样呢?" l, [2 S1 C" G1 T
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。7 F8 n- G: s i; ~4 U, D
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
( s$ D6 r" w+ _" M* ?never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
4 B0 q/ }& N2 h/ bNO WAY!, n6 D) j4 [2 t' i3 z& [7 B) _, d
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?* i8 |) k, E q
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