TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
# \- F6 @$ g3 c9 F% f3 |, u• attend a sleepover
* A; R8 _+ ?. t5 @) _! Y) S• have a playdate
! y. ^) e% e& e& ?9 U• be in a school play% t# Z. t% E7 q' o5 w
• complain about not being in a school play
* E- x$ \; E2 l6 o% _6 T4 Z. o• watch TV or play computer games
, [8 y5 a2 ? d$ h* @& ?& v• choose their own extracurricular activities4 u. F; _4 ]0 _" t1 E! x1 Y1 g
• get any grade less than an A3 k+ v' A0 Z! i$ U3 ]( L" V
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama) y0 s5 Q0 A: G& m
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin1 f0 D6 t% j% F3 F
• not play the piano or violin. 5 x8 T* x( o/ A4 Y- C
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。" [3 H/ P$ w. H6 b; U" C8 M H
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。+ `( K! V, r! M
到底何为成功?, h, @* J4 G; N( l5 v1 z4 ? l
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
4 D l' n' h- R# {3 @"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
3 k7 X3 l. r- J0 H0 Y* {" e/ v3 i" \做到这些又能怎样呢?6 r: l6 u8 B! l9 G7 ^; V
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
- W3 q* @# h& x在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
7 G. e; I$ L+ T1 s6 Qnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? }* u' M; U+ b9 w+ n1 m0 r8 u
NO WAY!8 y1 M" f, }4 |5 d7 k! k
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?7 {% U# r, U8 v0 Z& S7 `$ \
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