TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
' s, [: E, ~4 X# c7 I• attend a sleepover
/ \7 V! \3 w b0 g5 R! V$ d% C• have a playdate3 {3 p( O% } R3 E6 E* S0 _3 Y- B
• be in a school play# w/ b% o9 h K& P9 t& j
• complain about not being in a school play
2 t) I/ r0 P% @$ B- r7 n: z, C+ U• watch TV or play computer games
; T: q- F) P: V2 o2 V3 G& F: K1 I% l4 I• choose their own extracurricular activities4 o* a* K0 p. D6 y3 Q; z, v
• get any grade less than an A0 o% j5 U0 v0 f$ h* Z$ U# ]
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama, p* H9 ?# @$ Z; M; D4 b
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
3 y# U8 G/ `" ]; Z0 H" I• not play the piano or violin. 0 r9 a: M; Q- W* B' r
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
/ |0 I5 t& p& k我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。 {/ p2 c8 u' i; a7 j5 f* h
到底何为成功?7 ?- L: Y3 X" c! |
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?( X2 b5 z3 H9 R8 U! C
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
+ ?1 ^. i* F) r做到这些又能怎样呢?) r' y! a1 C+ u2 @ z# _
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。9 ^- W, E( ~; f& ^% \
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。: b( ], x3 |) H# K+ K8 R
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
- m$ }( _2 t4 }7 M: c$ FNO WAY!9 Q( a+ z V) |3 C
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?5 j7 b0 X1 |3 j
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