TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:1 C: Q+ d2 }8 R$ `, U1 }" k
• attend a sleepover. h2 p$ n7 d9 g4 D$ w
• have a playdate* r1 `) J3 |2 P2 a6 V1 K P) a
• be in a school play9 w1 D* a7 @6 {* y
• complain about not being in a school play, ?" }$ v9 I& |4 T
• watch TV or play computer games: `& c* N7 R7 [% k* o- D! [
• choose their own extracurricular activities9 {$ | t" ^3 p0 l6 J6 I
• get any grade less than an A
4 ~) m7 b9 o2 s. w ^( i6 H• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
& f) i K8 m* C, S8 }! f( f• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
1 p" t, v$ a. x• not play the piano or violin. ( i# m0 C4 H6 ~% K
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
; ]- N% z, ]3 O2 o我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。4 N! O( i1 B1 _: C% o
到底何为成功?7 P) m; R4 k! V1 z; A- T8 b' J$ S
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
1 H* B* O; \1 L( R4 F4 I" R4 X7 S"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?& o( o. l/ a% t& Y# t
做到这些又能怎样呢?
9 t0 o) W5 ~2 P& r我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
9 R: B. J* o, r0 O- ~0 L5 _在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
8 m6 a4 G3 I* l& nnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
9 E; O ]/ ^+ l; `1 x& S/ B$ bNO WAY!1 e3 S: M$ B- l' T
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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