TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
; e% r' i' }! B7 f( V+ V8 e+ q• attend a sleepover/ l$ ?5 J/ w# B2 T
• have a playdate* {; V/ d- a0 f' S$ P/ L8 J2 s
• be in a school play d7 R# U/ ~! {" Z7 L$ o
• complain about not being in a school play. i/ |7 W- C" B3 s
• watch TV or play computer games
3 M" S4 X3 c0 B- m$ r7 s• choose their own extracurricular activities! ?3 C+ g6 A/ z: g4 {& u" X
• get any grade less than an A9 L U! l$ O. `8 K8 Q; P9 q0 @
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama( p+ _6 _9 p! V. r+ w4 L9 y
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin. g8 C: |. I; y+ a
• not play the piano or violin.
7 o- A1 l8 y, w- \看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
, B. w+ m* j* w, |" s$ k我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。8 K4 {: Q2 H# j3 y
到底何为成功? p: y& j" A% `8 L: i
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么? J S. |- i$ D6 q+ [- [' I
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
$ ]' Y. X$ p% t2 Y( @做到这些又能怎样呢?
/ |, x+ P3 B" r8 @我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
4 B/ o, S6 o+ ~- e在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
$ J" d" M- p8 J' ]never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? 8 }' N. m' k$ ]- u0 x
NO WAY!) y) a" c" ?- A0 X
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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