TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
---|
签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
|
never allowed to do:& L( q+ F, s% z+ A1 ^4 F
• attend a sleepover" t/ I# [* g0 w7 h: N( \, w" m
• have a playdate$ J3 y4 y' ~1 F- d# J
• be in a school play: a( d& r( j i4 m
• complain about not being in a school play
: [9 K. `5 x( R7 ^6 ]$ n D• watch TV or play computer games
8 j. ^2 G/ b& n' s• choose their own extracurricular activities
$ v5 a. q+ Q8 F, r* E• get any grade less than an A
1 s# \/ ^- I5 H% A$ C• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
6 Y/ W2 A2 f9 D, {# S5 V• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
0 t' F. c! @$ z$ R! W4 e3 c• not play the piano or violin. + _. U( {# j- ^ s" ~8 C
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。% k$ {- n, U* b& K
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
4 M. a8 L) C3 {* D* K6 c& l到底何为成功?
6 Y, r0 L6 U' w- j“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
& X) @! u/ n* @6 ]8 S"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?- `4 p1 n. k1 r6 O Y& f
做到这些又能怎样呢?
& r( B8 @! J9 ?' Q4 n- Z: Q我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
1 ^. t, b8 g3 H }在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。* `8 _ c7 J2 l2 i
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
; i( t) Q Z4 xNO WAY!0 ^9 |5 P) \/ ^
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
$ @: e% S5 M/ w& f
: K* v) j/ L' E% e2 L9 m; E0 ? |
|