TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:8 T) @3 F0 A3 O8 N
• attend a sleepover0 e( S% n! u- t% l! v4 I+ a
• have a playdate
& v6 y/ U R) h* N7 M$ ]- \• be in a school play
! y) t, u g1 r: D' f# x* _• complain about not being in a school play3 [% z( d/ D: ]; _% G6 v
• watch TV or play computer games1 V/ r- M! A5 }, n% C8 e6 K/ G
• choose their own extracurricular activities
) h+ ?* j* {; m' h4 _ p• get any grade less than an A
. b+ U" o( D& V$ y* R9 Y2 i, u• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
& L2 Q e7 J7 C9 Z! a* t7 z• play any instrument other than the piano or violin, @+ d, L7 L+ L3 S& f+ O! K
• not play the piano or violin. 2 @! r; m, K6 _( M8 c, S
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。% k z, j. q4 u5 b
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
. q& q5 z- V: |4 r到底何为成功?" p+ C* i% q% R7 l; _/ @( U
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
+ ]; p( d8 O O) d) V8 F"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?) I% \9 @6 A* R- F
做到这些又能怎样呢?
! ^' u2 R( [9 k我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。( Z4 D+ ?( k1 ~+ J
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
. a+ w" g n/ `9 [never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? 3 h7 J7 w2 `8 l% G# n
NO WAY!3 m& m/ P2 }. p5 w5 |8 r
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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