TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
7 @. |$ V4 U7 O3 ~ v; N• attend a sleepover
- N6 k7 W# b0 ?9 U) O) ]9 _, A• have a playdate
% I, @5 {( K( t• be in a school play" l3 F7 x: T: ` ^
• complain about not being in a school play
9 s; T2 m9 D( b; h A) t' }• watch TV or play computer games
- \) q% M1 W" n& j- U• choose their own extracurricular activities* i/ @) s& M; k# E5 V
• get any grade less than an A% N, Y) K( A. O" e& C2 B2 I, ?
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
) Z4 }( Q6 [0 @3 E3 I• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
/ Q( _- s* w8 q, c2 W8 i• not play the piano or violin.
, y) i% u o2 @5 g; L7 Z看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。. S9 c# r( a6 ?7 j- j
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
' A) U$ h8 f3 [5 [% f. @到底何为成功?# ~* R* V1 H) v% q. E2 B6 {
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?' J' ?6 O# S8 `$ n# l$ O
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
# m4 a: _3 i" y/ o1 P" `做到这些又能怎样呢?
$ l, S! I; S' V. F& z, I3 B# G- q我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
. u% U2 Y, G: r" Y在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。* |/ v0 M2 v( I* f( I
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? % u5 A# o% x* S: q6 ]
NO WAY!
: c9 j; U* a0 }, V我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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