TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
* o) x! B- \, t) s4 E4 z. C• attend a sleepover& b( n) u4 r9 H* l4 O+ W
• have a playdate1 |6 b2 P/ V @, c& G" b
• be in a school play/ E, z- }6 I+ ~) |; }
• complain about not being in a school play: _! p& M4 Y1 u$ l
• watch TV or play computer games
/ f: {, S; x% P; m• choose their own extracurricular activities% n4 b' R3 N! S! T J: t9 F
• get any grade less than an A
% j0 K- J2 F/ e) M• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
4 u! Y) y+ F6 r% ?• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
' M& t+ Q `& ]* g" U) i% i( ^/ w7 ?• not play the piano or violin. ! E* }9 ^; g( J% w C( p$ P6 ?
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
- \1 @( i* ]$ n2 x我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。5 `2 P: n0 A1 o9 i6 y& |
到底何为成功?% d b8 O& l# m6 p3 I
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
% @# P8 Z) P9 i"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?8 ]; y' B1 K1 H
做到这些又能怎样呢?
$ O) Y" T' ?1 J! \我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。8 g7 h0 w2 H) V4 y9 Y5 \
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。# \/ f$ H I% I6 h V5 R" i8 s
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
6 j5 @/ r q- k I- n# qNO WAY!; |) i% B! O$ P9 @
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?9 [3 Y4 e: ?% I c
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