TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:* O1 C; A' N2 O, I( L: w) h
• attend a sleepover: G; C* l7 J5 `
• have a playdate( p# e4 A7 m6 P* p7 u& B4 m
• be in a school play( E U* C% }" R" g& f
• complain about not being in a school play+ F+ _, y& A' e* I9 v( K
• watch TV or play computer games; J8 f# ^/ a3 @* {
• choose their own extracurricular activities( ?" ?# d. Z3 M' Z' I1 o, E
• get any grade less than an A p' i5 i" ~ V% K1 D/ Z5 u% a
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
; o3 P& s, A9 K' W• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
* o1 q3 v+ A$ Y8 t" {• not play the piano or violin.
+ m4 R: n( C8 `/ y7 @看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。' m! T! v0 d4 J6 p" K
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。( N' W7 j2 ]+ f% L% e+ z2 y
到底何为成功?* H2 ]- S& f- F% J
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
9 W9 z9 _2 B2 S, W"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?9 \9 A" w# q2 B. x2 c, @1 b
做到这些又能怎样呢?7 P. v' \: ~. R- [- c$ T( ^
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。* J9 |! D0 y. Y1 C! K- y
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。& _1 z* `% ]- a4 }/ p3 f
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
- e" s, j( S3 r& b. iNO WAY!
8 W# A$ q- u! J8 E我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?' M4 p7 T' I2 k+ y* s- b: _! c
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