TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
3 ^9 e( I" l7 M; C" T* V• attend a sleepover
; [: B5 S4 y: x8 {• have a playdate
3 V$ s6 Q! h8 s/ k" D) }9 v: }8 t• be in a school play/ ~# g& ^) e4 ^3 X6 h$ N( q4 q
• complain about not being in a school play6 l+ X1 |* g- V5 m
• watch TV or play computer games
, |5 r A: s1 J' }• choose their own extracurricular activities( Z! I' I, t; t% k; q1 T, @6 u
• get any grade less than an A3 P+ y4 s; X4 C7 B: N, a3 @) q) N0 J
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama$ m/ X3 u- A) E3 s
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin3 U W$ P' Y+ t0 y
• not play the piano or violin. 4 j" ?! z0 R; d3 p: a* L
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
7 l# [$ K$ y8 o. S/ M) f我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。% u, Z6 g5 g) K7 @0 Q
到底何为成功?0 H0 D8 X, n5 h8 E! W6 N
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?' Z, Z; e# }/ @
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?0 l3 }4 V) d% w5 B: q
做到这些又能怎样呢?: r# w2 t6 _, D, F' m1 G! K# O
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。. ?( z* Q6 S+ l5 J+ I- {; ]8 n0 e
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。5 v) T* t @. J/ _
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
6 s% m+ `7 j! U1 e" e2 C% T7 ?NO WAY!
' k( d, h0 u, h5 Q( N$ ~! W我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?( m2 x# C6 q+ t l" ~
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