TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
( r" `- Z, y0 o• attend a sleepover
( Q) v. T4 F1 V: Y• have a playdate4 v, d% k0 L5 F
• be in a school play8 \, [% a# N; q/ T( N
• complain about not being in a school play @2 x- p1 [3 m# `
• watch TV or play computer games
0 o7 L/ t+ L0 C* A8 o' K9 @. f• choose their own extracurricular activities
! c5 t3 x7 I, \. F• get any grade less than an A
6 W7 o9 U n$ m/ d4 t# c• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
2 h& v, N4 t, ~# v: h* y• play any instrument other than the piano or violin# A/ _* \/ c5 z( A# z) x; D) T
• not play the piano or violin.
6 W4 N9 E- T/ ]# j7 i" I+ m看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。, X- Q% R: N7 G @4 R
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
! U2 b" l2 \9 M+ `! T" p到底何为成功?
O$ g* n' d! g“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
* I( U# c) g2 o% ^; X8 |$ V d"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
% S* ^5 o# Q% }- \# E2 p做到这些又能怎样呢?* n5 |. F/ A1 C; \% B c
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。* u! `2 n: A, I
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。5 ^9 k# m4 _/ T* U0 ~/ J
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? 6 I1 ~3 u/ c0 k, F+ I I; C ?$ a1 H; H
NO WAY!
: Y) |, L! T' P! B) P我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?% R, @( I' F0 i& w. }. @1 d
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