TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
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• have a playdate
# J! [% F& u* x0 U$ y; h- B• be in a school play
" _3 M0 L* L B( @. k• complain about not being in a school play/ w; |, B% \& w" f' t
• watch TV or play computer games4 }3 u" C9 T0 b* Z
• choose their own extracurricular activities8 i% h4 G! ~7 J. F% F
• get any grade less than an A. U4 T4 U! U# x9 l V
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama# s9 N/ c8 N6 ~" {& V" ^) J
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin4 p8 N+ B' n @4 x) _8 n, O O
• not play the piano or violin.
0 l$ H6 F; v2 d5 ?/ ~/ \/ y看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。: }7 T6 M4 Y" g% }! ]3 ~
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。3 [* S) n2 |4 ?" l
到底何为成功?" z8 E; |! q. H! }
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?, b7 |5 `: M( x2 e: }
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?* x6 w* Y# P- [% }8 I; A7 p* R/ `
做到这些又能怎样呢?
. `+ [5 W4 n0 @& `6 Y) ^我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。% W D% W& p, W8 a; e
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
* y- h0 x- h; M0 ~3 f6 Onever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? 6 g# P( z3 o( {3 V) o
NO WAY!
! l- `; ~& F& M/ ^1 ^; @2 S我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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