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• attend a sleepover4 @( t3 b6 L) m' T4 e
• have a playdate k+ z) R2 {6 H• be in a school play ! B7 H, x1 h3 h# x- E• complain about not being in a school play / g: b7 u; {+ r) n8 [• watch TV or play computer games1 U3 ^) e4 o2 W# _' P; c/ g
• choose their own extracurricular activities , H$ H) l# b( y$ Z6 m8 f• get any grade less than an A+ q: z" ^1 p2 Y
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama . Q- J8 ?% a3 e6 J• play any instrument other than the piano or violin 6 _) W8 c% \; {5 q. n% F• not play the piano or violin.
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看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语，绝对无法苟同。1 E0 ]- e- z2 C0 y9 Y
我是无论如何也做不到，也不想做到。 7 E7 s8 f: m. D+ i# C到底何为成功？ * `- k5 _' X6 |! S# X. ^“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么？ " g! z9 m' s7 t( ?" k7 F9 w"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么？) x3 K1 u3 E: z3 g0 [0 k2 S8 O
做到这些又能怎样呢？ 1 }# I3 L+ H! u: Q: C我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条，永不停歇。& l$ X. | K! \; T+ O1 ?
在我看来，作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境，能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没，能够帮助孩子设定目标，指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。 3 G2 k7 p) T/ q; z" u# r- P d
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
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NO WAY! ' k7 A" G7 s5 P( e& O# r我实在想不出，这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道？ ' p y4 Y5 d- H) k7 s 7 `+ u s* K2 x$ |4 @
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