华裔虎妈和国际中学生教育排名

不爱吱声

never allowed to do:
+ E# b5 m) e, z5 D4 q• attend a sleepover
, s+ u1 o# }3 {• have a playdate
• be in a school play
0 x+ q7 l3 a; o9 p• complain about not being in a school play
! o; ~1 s# a- b; l4 ?  _! j• watch TV or play computer games
6 _; }' {; |/ F7 A* u• choose their own extracurricular activities
0 f2 I( r" h$ x( l: w3 a• get any grade less than an A
8 O: V; \, X( |. e/ w: T. [• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
• not play the piano or violin.

& _- A6 ~, B5 [6 [看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语，绝对无法苟同。
5 _4 L1 Q+ X  e8 I- \' n我是无论如何也做不到，也不想做到。
- H1 t; u, S4 B" n到底何为成功？
% s# o$ t# _9 J* r1 ?& G( a: ?“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么？
' Y8 D+ g, C% ^"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么？
$ x3 ^, K6 B& G: _做到这些又能怎样呢？
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条，永不停歇。
+ V2 P3 e  N6 Z9 e% Z2 {( J在我看来，作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境，能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没，能够帮助孩子设定目标，指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
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never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?

NO WAY!
: L+ m+ l* X! m: Y我实在想不出，这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道？

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