TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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发表于 2011-1-26 09:04:47
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never allowed to do:
: ]6 G2 i- A& m; L$ j8 N/ z• attend a sleepover
8 h7 d, H: C' s• have a playdate
3 ~2 L$ o9 `+ b+ x/ ?6 k• be in a school play
1 p; H' x1 F" j" C% s; P W- l, Y• complain about not being in a school play
' t. W! S) _7 ~0 u; v) b• watch TV or play computer games# ]$ Z5 a" ~+ f8 X2 c' W
• choose their own extracurricular activities1 T( K, q9 h, s( @0 j
• get any grade less than an A& y2 D# r: X/ K$ h1 C; c+ U d
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama' P+ `% E( R2 P" @4 H
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
0 h- u5 s5 q, Q" N6 H• not play the piano or violin. - ^2 b0 X4 h; \4 L
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。! K' a9 z/ t3 q3 |) ~- T
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。# x- d. g" z8 B, Y6 J( v
到底何为成功?
+ L4 u* V, ]* e, ]; u“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?7 b6 ^0 n4 [9 _
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
+ p y/ j" a) a9 y做到这些又能怎样呢?% [" B. t2 Y6 |! k/ n3 z
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。1 L! u1 F7 f1 a. H
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
8 |6 P3 J4 B+ ~/ z& a7 M4 x8 Znever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
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我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?- z0 d- {0 [7 y7 w
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